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The family and friends of Jesica and Enny are uniting to raise money to help with the cost of IVF and other medical expenses related!

Be a part of bringing a beautiful child into this world for a couple who will give this child more love than can be put into words!

This fund has been created to raise money to help cover costs of infertility treatment.

Treatment will be done at the Fertility Centers of New England

My self Jesica and partner Enny have been together for 8 years. On Febuary 15th he proposed to me, which was the best feeling ever! But now planning on a wedding, comes the emotions of not being able to concieve. Its a feeling that takes over your body; the pain and anguish takes over my life at times. We have been caring for my now 16 year old cousin for 5 years that I love more than words! But I still want to have the opportunity to be a Mommy and for Enny to be a Daddy<3

Me and my partner have been TTC for 5 years now naturaly and through fertility treatments with no luck. It has been a really tough time with a lot of tears shed and depression. We are at a point where our only option left is to try Invitro, which insurence does not cover. Some of you may be wondering what is In Vitro Fertilization? It's commonly referred to as IVF. Ivf is the process of fertilization by manually combing an egg and sperm in a laboratory dish. When the Ivf procedure is successful, the process is combined with a procedure known as embryo transfer, which is used to physically place the embryo in the uterus. Unfortunately our medical insurance will not cover any of our procedure. Infertility in women has affected more than 2.1 million women in the world. It’s very sad that medical insurance companies will not help you with this very common medical condition. Some of you may say if you can't afford Ivf how can u afford to raise a child? my partner and I both have pretty good paying jobs, but like a lot of Americans we don't have $11,000.00 plus just laying around. We both would be great parents and are fully capable of caring for and raising a child. Our Ivf treatment along with the cost of my medication must be paid for in full before any Dr. will perform this procedure. Please open your hearts and donate life. To make a donation please select “GIVE NOW” by using a credit, debit Thank you all so much!!

All we are asking for is a small donation of at least a dollar, or anything your willing to spare to help us to achieve our dream of having a family and the wonderful gift of being a parents!


Thoughts on Becoming a Mother

There are women that become mothers without effort,
without thought, without patience or loss and though
they are good mothers and love their children,
I know that I will be just as good a mother.

It will be not because of genetics,
or money or that I have read more books but because I have struggled and toiled for this child.
I have longed and waited. I have cried and prayed.
I have endured and planned over and over again.

Like most things in life, the people who truly have
appreciation are those who have struggled to attain their dreams.
I will notice everything about my child.
I will take time to watch my child sleep, explore and discover.

I will care and love this miracle every day for the rest of my life.
I will be happy when I wake in the middle of the night
to the sound of my child, knowing that I can comfort,
hold and feed him or her and that I am not waking to take
another temperature, pop another pill, take another
shot or cry tears of a broken dream.
My dream will be crying for me.

I count myself blessed in this sense; that God has given
me this insight, this special vision with which I will
look upon my child that my friends will not see.
I will not be careless with my love.

I will be a better mother for all that I have endured.
I will be a better wife, a better daughter,a better friend and sister because I have known pain.
I know because I have been betrayed by my own body.

I have been tried by fire and hell many
never face, yet given time, I stood tall.
I have prevailed. I have succeeded. I have won.
So now, when others hurt around me, I do not run from
their pain in order to save myself discomfort.
I see it, mourn it, and join them in theirs.
I listen. And even though I cannot make it better,
I can make it less lonely.
I have learned the immense power of
another hand holding tight to mine, of other eyes that
moisten as they learn to accept the harsh truth and
when life is beyond hard. I have learned a compassion
that only comes with walking in those shoes.

I have learned to appreciate life.
Yes I will be a wonderful mother.
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