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This fundraiser ended on 01/25/12

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Raise bail money so he can see he is loved. and he gets to break the cycle and be there with his son. change a life, make a difference.

Abandonment represents the core of human fear. We all experience to some extent, it is a mixture feeling helpless, unworthy, uncapable, broken, confused, doomed, lonely, betrayed. Abandonment is simply put the loss of love itself, loss of the crucial connectedness one needs when growing up. It is a wound that is at the heart and bases on the variety of human experiences it is different in each persons life.

This form of grief's distinguishing feature is that it has a far greater damange to self-esteem. The rage we feel ,about being rejected against ourselves. The feeling of worthlessness, rejection, withdrawal-of-love, deseration, it eats away at the persons self esteem. If it is unresolved it is the source of insecurites, addcition, compulsions, and distress it is the invisible roadblock that keeps us stuck in self-sabotage patterns.

The addictive problems seem to be temporarily relieved by self help meetings, but those programs dont resolve the underlying problems resulting in distress, disturbance, and continued self-medication resulting in jails, institutions, and death. These people strugggle to find and keep relationships, but in the end they are alone once again. Sometimes they can maintain a relationship for long periods of time before it blows up. Children are created, and the deep seated issue is passed on.

For the past few months I have personally witnessed a person who had everything going for him. Had completly changed his life, was approaching 3 years clean, was soon to be married and had beautiful son. Started a new life, a family, was happier than he had ever been, but the self-sabatage came into play. It was painful to watch and I still cant really believe that one person can experience that much pain. He kept spiraling downward and ended up Alone, broken, shattered, hopeless and felt loss of critical support again. The feelings of impending doom would make him act out with anger, but when he thought about his son his eyes would have hope again. But the hopeful eyes were seen less and less often, and next thing I knew he was back in jail and I wish he could see how many people are out here trying to get the funds together to bail him out. To be here for him, because he deserves love and support and friends. And he has friends, and support and a son that needs him. A cycle that could be broken. So a few of us put this fundraiser together.

HELP BREAK THIS CYCLE OF INSANETY!! GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO BE OUT HERE FOR HIS SON, AND GIVE THE SON THE CHANCE TO HAVE A DAD
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