Over the years we have had the awesome opportunity to hear many of our users stories. Fortunately, many of our users have taken the time to share their personal experiences with us that have brought them to GiveForward. These stories are so inspiring that we wanted to share them with the community. Each week we will be featuring one story within our blog. This is the first of the stories about a man diagnosed with cancer whose friends helped him raise $88,000 on GiveForward.
How many subject lines do we see in a day? A month? A year? Most are mundane – until you get one that says “Johan has cancer.” Only a few days after Christmas my friend Stephanie sent me and 5 other friends this message: “My husband has cancer, he is dying, and I need your help.”
A skin lesion that was considered nothing ended up being a sign of Stage 4 Renal Carcinoma. Johan was given 10 months to live. The only option was a treatment he could not get in Holland and that his insurance company would not cover. I could feel Stephanie’s panic. As a friend I wanted to help but was in Colorado, so far from Holland. Thank goodness, my husband found GiveForward.
I couldn’t rush to my friend’s side but GiveForward gave me the opportunity to do much, much, more. I immediately contacted my 5 friends, Kelly, Kathy, Lisa, Erin, and JJ. We decided to try and raise money. Regardless of whether insurance came through or not, out-of-pocket expenses would be extraordinary and Johan’s life might be extended through treatment.
I put the GiveForward page together with the initial goal of $10,000. That sounded like a dream but why not aim high? All of us dove into the project without Johan and Stephanie’s knowledge. We began by emailing everyone we knew. My expectations were low, but it gave me something to focus on – a small sense of power and action, and maybe even a little hope.
Within 48 hours I began to realize something special was happening. We were pushing people through email and Facebook to GiveForward, and they were coming. Soon a viral network of friends, acquaintances and total strangers had blasted through the $10,000 mark and we couldn’t reset our goals fast enough – $20,000, $30,000, $50,000, and higher! An Uncle connected us to Johan’s coworker’s in Holland who picked up the cause, long ago school teachers reached out, my next door neighbor, cancer survivors, strangers who had lost loved ones to cancer and wanted someone to beat it.
There were as many different reasons for the giving as there were donors, but one common theme emerged: GiveForward gave us all the chance for power, action, and hope.
Over $88,000 raised in a few short months. One might call it a miracle, a gift from heaven, or simply a remarkable act of human kindness. In the end though, it all goes back to Johan and Stephanie. They have lived their lives in a gracious, generous, and compassionate manner without the thought or expectation they would ever be repaid. We may not be able to give them what they truly deserve, but GiveForward has given over a thousand donors a chance to try.
Not all Cancer can be fixed through treatment. Not all Cancer can be fixed with kind-hearted donations. Johan has responded well to treatment. It may be that his life has been extended, whatever that means. Johan and Stephanie are strong, they are surrounded by love and they face this challenge every day. With or without GiveForward this would be true. But with GiveForward, something different has happened. They are facing the future– moving to the United States, paying extra medical costs, staying out of debt, and putting aside funds for their children. They are able to prepare for the inevitable but live every day. In a nutshell, Stephanie says that the money, “…has given us peace.”
GiveForward, especially Ethan, spent countless hours on the phone with Johan, Stephanie, and I. They knew how to help all of us to reach a goal that none of us ever anticipated. Everyone should know about them. Giving is exactly what Johan has always done. I’m so happy that I could find a way to give to him.
Stay tuned everyone for weekly inspirational stories from our users….